In contemporary times,most old relatives of overseas Chinese receive substantial remittances every year and live a secure and comfortable life.

This paper attempts to analyze the female family members life in the family field from the technical angle, and believes that in the family the female family members perform positive response to family rules based on self-coganization of family responsibility and intrinsic demand of the realization of value.

The different understanding of Gu Hongming, Lu Xun and Lin Yutang, some intellectuals in the changing period of the Chinese modern culture, concerning the nature of the traditional culture, decides their attitudes towards the traditional cul- ture——that is, favoring, abandoning and unconvitional.